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Tips For Individuals With Disabilities On Preparing For Parenthood

4/27/2018

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By Guest Writer Ashley Taylor
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Parenthood is a big job, and one of the most stressful things you’re likely to ever do, but it’s also rewarding in so many ways. It can be a bit overwhelming, however, especially if you’re one of the 1-in-5 Americans who, according to the Census Bureau, lives with a disability. Preparing for a new baby requires a multi-prong approach that involves making sure the house is safe, that you have all the physical items necessary--diapers, a crib, bassinet, and/or car seat that meets current safety standards, and clothing--and that you are emotionally and mentally prepared for the demanding work ahead of you.

Because it can be difficult for some individuals to escape the stigma of their disability, preparing yourself for scrutiny or unwanted advice is imperative. With a severe disability also comes the worry about child safety intervention from government services, and that can take a toll on your emotions and stress levels. Fortunately, there are some simple ways you can prepare for a child that will give you peace of mind and will ensure that you’re ready for this new chapter in your life. Here are a few of the best tips on how to get started.
 
Safety first
 
One of the most important parts of preparing for a baby is to make sure your home is safe for everyone in the family. Even though your little one won’t be moving around for awhile, it’s a good idea to think ahead. If your home has stairs, invest in some sturdy baby gates to prevent falls when he begins to crawl. Use outlet covers for any electrical outlets not in use, and keep loose cords tied together. If your windows have mini blinds, put the pull cords up out of reach to prevent strangulation hazards. You’ll also want to check out the smoke detectors and carbon monoxide detector (or install one) to make sure they are working properly and have fresh batteries.
 
Go from room to room and look at things from a child’s point of view; anything that will be in his reach when he becomes mobile could be a potential hazard. It’s also a good idea to take a look at any areas that may need attention, such as a bathroom that has been modified for your disability. It may be necessary to make a few small changes to ensure safety for both you and your child. For more tips on how to ease parenting with a disability, look at Redfin.com.
 
Find support
 
Do some research and look for support in your area. It may come from a parenting class, your local hospital, or an online support group for new parents (or one that is specific to parents with disabilities). Having the support of someone who understands what you’re going through can be extremely helpful when you have a new child.
 
Look for ways to get active
 
Individuals with disabilities often have trouble being social after the arrival of a new baby, in part because they feel overwhelmed with the thought of going out alone with such precious cargo. But it’s important to find ways to be active and stay social even after the baby comes in order to ensure that your mental and physical health are well maintained. There are many ways you can remain active. Dr. Joseph Mercola, a Chicago-based osteopathic physician, suggests making the kids a part of your fitness routine.
 
Parenting is certainly a challenge, but with some good planning and the support of your friends and family, it doesn’t have to be a daunting one. You can prepare for your new addition by taking safety precautions and getting in the right mindset. Keep communication open with your loved ones about your needs, and reach out when you need help. 


Ashley Taylor is a freelance writer, photographer, and advocate for people with disabilities. She created DisabledParents.org to provide information and resources to other parents with disabilities. When she isn’t working, she enjoys spending time with her husband and two children. ​
5 Comments
Mary
4/27/2018 08:06:02 pm

Thank you Ashley for this valuable information so that parents with disabilities can have more ease with parenting.

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5/10/2018 04:16:12 pm

I will not recommend people with disabilities to use their condition as an excuse to grow up anti-social because they need to develop pristine friendships that is built thru years of trust. They will need this the most especially when they become parents. They could really use all the help they can get. It's not only for them but for the safety of their babies too. I am sure they can be good parents if they worked really hard. We must give them all the love and support at this time where they need it most.

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11/20/2018 06:54:06 am

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7/19/2019 08:16:26 pm

Parenthood is a very different matter. Parenthood is both a curse and a gift, a priceless gift that only your child can give. My aunts and uncles are having a hard time to be parents nowadays for their children are starting their rebellious stage. The good thing was our neighborhood is very accommodating and always welcoming to parents who are having a hard time with their children. They share information and even tips on how to handle a child or even an adolescent.

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6/10/2019 08:01:59 pm

I remember the days back then when I was in my young age when I got pregnant. My husband and I separated by that time since we are not sure about the path we are taking. He is so young back then and so do I. I also had the point in where I wanted to just throw away my child, but I did not do it and I regret thinking about it. Years later, I finished my studies and had my job. Years later, my husband and I got back together and we sure are parenting is never easy.

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